Karla's Cottage

Sweet babies

 

Miss Pixie Pie, is now a big sis!  She has a cuddly little brother at her house now.  We got over to see him a few days ago and I was able to get some snuggles. There is nothing on earth like holding a new born baby, is there?

We took the big sister home with us for a while to play with her cousin and give her parents a little break. The girls spent a lot of the evening just filling water cans.  Its good to have well water, and not worry about water bills,  water is such easy entertainment for kids this age.

Afterwards, they were a little shivery, so I fixed them hot cocoa.  Not something we have very often in the summertime, so they were both pretty excited to get some.  It was fun to have hot chocolate in the summer in the same way it is to have pancakes for supper sometimes. 

After getting dry and warm, they helped me make dinner.  I like to give the kids a hunk of bread dough and some bowls of cheese and broccoli for them to create their own bread sticks.  Our fairy grand kid can play with dough for so long, we almost don't get it into the oven in time to have it done for supper. Pixie Pie was a bit more efficient than her cousin, she got hers done and ready to pop into the oven right away, so I just gave her more and kept her going on it.  That kid doesn't mess around, she got them all whipped up in no time, while Sugarwings was still reconstructing the shape of her dough ball for the dozenth time. 

Speaking of cooking, my gift for the new mom and dad might seem a bit odd, but instead of buying baby clothes or toys, I like to pack up a big bag full of convenience items.  Paper plates, cups, plastic forks, etc. to hopefully save them some time while they are caring for the new baby.  Its a hectic time, and its not always easy to get dishes done while caring for a newborn.

Cause watching a little one can sure wear you out!

 
Earlier in the week, we were lucky enough to have BOTH grands over for the night.  Mayara is just getting big enough to come over and spend some time, now that her  mommy is not nursing as much.    She was so sweet. If I held up her dolly, and ask her to give it some love, she'd plant a big ole slobbery kiss on its head. 

These girls are all pretty sweet too, I splurged big time and took them to the groomers for a make over, complete with matching bows.

Our neighbor, Holden thought they looked lovely.

Even with all the cute babies around here, I've been managing to get things done. I went to a flea mkt with Mary, and met up with Beth who was selling there.  As sweet as all the kids are, it was pretty durn nice to have a grown up day with junking!

By the way, Mary is hosting her first swap and its a doozy.  Its for glue book pages, and she'll provide the book covers, ring binders, plus an ephemera pack to get you started on making your book grow with more art when you get it back.

Our remodelling project has been finalized too.

Its good to finally get all of that settled and mark a date on the calender to start it.

Although, that means, that I have to start packing up my kitchen.  Ugh.

On the other hand, it means that I get to pick out flooring and shop for something to build into a kitchen island.  I know what I want, now I just need to find it.

I've been adding some things to the Boutique over the weekend, and a few to the long neglected Etsy shop too.

I  hope to add more, but then I always say that, don't I?

This weekend we have family in town to visit, and will be going to one of our faves, the Renfest.  After that, I have 3 days to get everything in my kitchen and dining room packed up and out of the room so the work can begin.  So, who knows if I'll get more added to the shop. Maybe after the packing up is done.

I'll have more additions to the shop to show you in the next post, this one has run on long enough.

Almost Zero Dollar Decorating!

During my frenzy of de-mousing the house, I gave my bedroom a deep cleaning.  Sugarwings was spending the day with me, so it was her job to squirt the wax while I mopped the floor.  There is a short period of time when kiddos think that helping clean is more fun than just about anything.  Too bad it doesn't last longer. (and you should see how happy she was to hold the black light the time we went on a dog pee search- it was like treasure hunting to her.  I wasn't quite as thrilled to find the glowing purple marks as she was.  By the way, those black lights are the best tool around when you are housebreaking a puppy!!)

After moving all the furniture and cleaning under and behind it, I wanted to freshen the room up with a new look, but the way this room is laid out, if we want to lay around in bed and watch tv, there aren't many choices for rearranging. So, I did the best I could and moved around some of the mirrors and things on the wall. 

 

The mirror had been in the bathroom before, I switched around a few mirrors and traded them out.  Its not as fun as shopping, but it did make me feel less bored with the whole room. I kept the pillar where it is, but took the concrete angel out doors, and set an old vase with silks up on it instead.

The lamp came from the living room, and I pinned a blue millinery rose to it so it would match this room. I have a smaller alabaster lamp on the other side of the bed, so I kind of like having a near-matching set together. (both are from garage sales, years ago for about 5 bucks each)

Zero Dollar Decorating always gives me a lift, sometimes switches and trades are all I need to jump start a room and make me like it again. But, I can't quite call this mini redo that, because I did buy a few things for it.

While I was on my trip to Indiana, I found the alarm clock at an antique store ($11) and the new spread at either TJ Max or Steinmart for $40. 

I also bought two indoor/outdoor throw rugs at TJMax for $12 each, but I pointed the camera the other way, so you can't see them here.  They are a neutral tan with brown vines.

The most expensive part of the redo was a new sewing machine. I was too cheap to pay $25 for two shams to go with the new spread, plus I preferred using some vintage tablecloths and lace that I had to make some instead. 

Half way through the project, I seriously jacked up my 6 year old, low end Singer and couldn't get it to sew anymore.  I hate to admit that I am part of America's throw away society, but it would have cost more to repair than replace, so I zipped over to Walmart and got another $89 machine. Hopefully, I'll get another 5 or 6 years out of this one. 

The table cloth I used on the top pillows was a little holey, so I patched it with lace, then added rows of sheer trim (a Bird Song Tag Book Swap hostess gift!!). The shams for the other set of pillows were made from curtains that I took down in the bathroom.

Yep, my redos had spilled over to the adjoining bath. Well, when I started moving mirrors around, it hit me that I'd never liked that curtain in there....  When we remodelled, I found it at the Goodwill for $5, it wasn't vintage, just second hand.  And it was always too long, I kept thinking that I would hem it and never did, so I just took it down, turned it into pillow shams, and made something else to hang there, while I was on a roll.

 

My buddy, Lisa, had given me a gorgeous netting and lace bed set that was too nice to use on the bed in a house full of dogs. So, part of it is hung as curtains in the living room, the rest I cut up to make a curtain in here.

Since netting isn't private enough for a bathroom window, I sewed the fabric over some of the table cloth I'd cut up for pillows.

It isn't quite wide enough, so I hung a curtain panel on each side to cover that up.  Everything is smoke and mirrors at my house, all made to look better than it really is...

But overall, I'm much happier with the "new" curtains I made.  They go well with the Victorian Trading Co. outlet store shower curtains ($20, then dyed with tea, coffee, and Rit)

My husband is of course, just thrilled with more frills.  (not really) But he rarely notices what I do to the house anyway, so its fine. He doesn't actually care. 

I know I've told this story before, but it was years ago, so maybe its okay to tell it again? My Mother-in-Law was visiting, and my darling was showing her photos of our home in a magazine that had been lying on the table.  He was very proud and telling her details about each room as he went through the pictures.

I was a little surprised to hear him so interested, but thrilled to hear him be proud of something I've done- like I said, I don't think he notices things around the house. So, I looked over their shoulders to see which magazine they were looking at.

It was NOT our house. He just thought it was since there were pink roses and chippy paint in the photos.

 
In this photo from earlier this year, you can kind of see the old curtains on the window.  Just enough to see what I mean, about them being a bit too long.  They hung down all the way to the rose trim around the tub, the new ones (next picture) are a better length.

(that rose tile is one of my favorite things about the room.  While tile shopping, I saw it at a store in Topeka, but it was discontinued. They happened to have a few pieces left in the back room and sold it to me for 75% off.  I had enough to put around the tub, plus one extra that I keep thinking I'll make a shelf out of.)

Here is the bedroom from a couple years ago. No, I didn't change much, but just enough to keep me from being sick of it. I'm easily pleased.

 

Here is another older photo. 

Maybe it is more "edited" now.  I was going for serene.  To cut down on clutter, I also draped a small table topper over an extension rod in the built in cubby above the drawers.  It was just a dust catcher, I had stuff sitting in there, not anything functional or really all that cool. Just a couple urns and a photo.  I like it better covered up.

I like the whole room better now.  I just hope that the bedding stays ivory. The first time it rains and the dogs jump up on it, might be the end of it.  White might be smarter, it can at least be bleached to stay white... wish me luck.

 

Breezy

While I had my son here, and we both had paint brushes in hand, I asked him to tackle the breezeway with me. I've hated the too bright green it was painted for YEARS. I had painted it on a whim, I'd had a beloved puppy die in my arms after months of nursing her along and trying to keep her alive, and needed something cheerful and bright around me.  I also wanted something physical to do to keep myself busy after burying her.

Typically, I don't have a lot of bright colors in my house, unless they are seasonal accents.  But, this was an outdoor room, and I thought it was the perfect place for a splash of color.

Instead, it only reminded me of my dead dog.

And it was not fun to paint, since it is clap siding and can't be done with a roller.  And I knew that the green would be hard to cover, so I just kept putting the job off.

The new color I finally chose is much more tranquil, and is a much calmer backdrop to the stuff I had in the room already.  I left everything just as it was, the only change in the whole room is the wall color.  Well, and I switched out the seat cushion, it had been a hot pink.  The blue velvet is a cushion that my mom made about 30 years ago. 

The bench was hers too. I've painted it numerous times since I've had it.  In her possession, it was maple.

The room feels a lot bigger in this pale gray/blue.  And I'm so glad we got this done.  It makes me smile every time   I walk through it.

I was ready to get this room cleaned up and new looking after our recent raccoon attack.  Those coons ripped my curtains to shreds, and I wanted to replace them, but wanted to make sure the curtains went with the new color I chose.

  Instead of shopping at the store, I shopped at home in my linen closet and found a stack of white on white, striped sheers that I used to have in my kitchen, so my only cost for the redo was a gallon of paint/primer in one (Behr).  This kind of paint offers great coverage, and mostly did the job in one coat with a few touch ups here and there.

The white curtains also helped create the breezy feeling this room now has.  And under them are new, aluminum screens to hopefully prevent more coon invasions! If that doesn't work, we'll have to go to chicken wire over the windows.  Or razor wire....

  (the bird cage stand holds a simple chandelier that I've epoxy-ed tea cups to after taking out the wiring and the lighting parts. I keep tea light candles or fresh flowers in the cups, depending on my mood)
Even before I painted over the pea green explosion on the walls, I have considered this my pink and green room.  And I figured I'd have to do some redecorating and moving things out when I repainted. I was thinking that nothing would match any more.  But I am quite taken with the soft blue back ground, against all the pink florals. Plus, there are hints of blue here and there that I never really noticed when the room was green, like in the pillows, the broken plates in the birdbath that I made, and in the flowers painted on the bench.

There is very little blue in the mosaic table, but that doesn't really bug me.  I still think it fits the room fine.

I'd planned on repainting the shutters on the door too, but I'm liking the black and roses with the blue.  It seems like a nice contrast, and not too matchy.

(the shutters were bi-fold doors from a garage sale for a couple bucks. I took them off the hinges and painted them up, the other half of the set is on the front door to my studio)

After a while, I just might paint everything that is black now, a medium gray, with sepia glaze over it.  But for now, I'm satisfied. The gray is a maybe, and if I decide to do it, will be a good project when I'm feeling the need for another fresh-up.

Do you ever play with Rate My Space on HGTV's site? I have fun with it. You can lose a lot of hours browsing from one room to another...  anyway, if you want to check it out, you can start with this room, and give it a rating for me!

 

Next post, I'll show you a few more of my changes around the house. I've been productive lately!

Downey Hugs

 

This week is the anniversary of my mom's death, and would have been my dad's birthday too.  I'll always miss them, and often find myself reaching for the phone to tell Mom something, even after all these years.  I especially miss Daddy during garden season, he loved to talk tomatoes with me.

When he died, there was some unpleasantness with his wife's family.  She has Alzheimer's and there were a lot of issues about what to do and who should handle it.  Not to go into sad and messy details, but there was nothing we could legally do to take care of her, and it ended on an ugly note. 

But on my recent trip to Indiana, I did work up my nerve to go see her, and look what I got!!

My dad's ashes!!

(My stepmother was frail, but remembered me and welcomed me with open arms. I'm so glad that I went to see her.)

The ashes were an unexpected and emotional gift.  My sisses and I toasted our dad, then divided his baggied remains three ways.  Before he died, he had asked me to sprinkle some ashes on his garden, my garden, and the rest in Florida, at his favorite place.

So, it looks like we'll be planning a Sister Trip to Florida to fulfill his wishes!

(this photo is from my Mom's 75th birthday party)

I've got some photos to come of my bedroom, breezeway, and bathroom redos.  But first I wanted to post about the Downey Dinner I went to in Indiana earlier July. Daddy would have liked that.

Of course, the food is always magnificent.  I can never resist home baked bread, sugar cream pie, and home made noodles.

And its great to catch up with aunts, uncles, and cousins that I only see every few years or so.

But one thing that I really enjoyed about the reunion was seeing all of the hugs.

Every where I looked, there was a hug going on.

We might not see each other all the time, but when we do, we like to show our affection.

This is a family tradition that has carried on into my own branch of the family tree, too. My son, Ry, never leaves the room without giving me a hug or kissing me on the top of the head.  And Sugarwings is a full speed hugger.  When she sees her Pop Pop or me, she'll speed across the room and give us a full force, diving in, hug.

We might not come from a wealthy family, its mostly farmers. But what I inherited from our Downey clan is better than money. 

A love of growing things, down home style food, and big hugs!

New in the Boutique and THANK YOU!

Since I was painting this week, I whipped up a few signs while I had my paint clothes on.  

this is on an old door panel. Its in the Boutique now, for $25 plus shipping. I used to crank these out non-stop, they were always a good item to have in my booth back in the days when I sold antiques.   Now, I don't make them very often.   I kind of miss painting...  But I do get to paint with Sugarwings now and then.

Sterling Silver and Crystal earrings $19

I don't know if you remember my big talk about getting my Boutique up to date a while back?  Well.... I tried.

I added quite a bit, and did it a few days in a row! I was patting myself on the back for getting back to business, but then got sidetracked with painting shutters and the breezeway, and all sorts of other little projects. (photos coming this weekend)

Crystal and rhinestone bracelet $20

Its very nice, though, that most of all the new goods sold before I could even tell you about them!! What a wonderful feeling.

Ephemera covered tag book (8 x 4")  $18

Here are some of the goodies that are still available.This tag book is filled with lots of ehemera treats.

Rhinestone bracelet $15

There are a few more pretties too, and honestly, I have a giant Rubbermaid tub by the door filled with things I am waiting to take pictures of.  I need to get moving. 

As Willy Wonka says, "So much time, so little to do.  Strike that, reverse it"

Thank you all so much for still shopping with me, even though I've not been very good at keeping things fresh and new for you.  There are still lots of "staples" in the store. When I listed papers, charlottes, and millinery, I made up tons of each, so they would be in stock a while.   

And I do promise to add more. 

Soon.

Maybe.

And thanks also for all the dress form love!!! Wow, I'm thrilled at the way this online class is still selling. I appreciate your interest in the class and all of the questions about the availabilty of kits. I have a million pretty things to make kits of.  But, haven't gotten around to making them.

I used to be so much more on top of things.  I don't know where the time goes anymore.

This picture could explain some of it. These two little sprites wear out us old people!

Today, I made a Halloween style dress form for all of you who have signed up for the classes, as a thanks.

I hope to add the witchy woman to the boutique too.  As a matter of fact, I'm going to go and do that now.

If you are interested in purchasing the dress form class, here are the details.

 

It all started with a mouse

Do you ever just put up with stuff around the house and let it bug you each time you look at it, till it gets to the point that you just don't look at it any more?  I never used to, but in the last couple of years, my house has been neglected. 

See what I mean? All of our shutters were peeling,  the worst were up on the 2nd floor, so I just never looked up.  But when the ones right by the front door started to get worse and worse, it became hard to avert my eyes.  

Then, we were invaded by mice.  Yes, what do mice have to do with shutters?  Well, I guess these nasty little poo droppers just seriously got my attention, and when I started to clean up after them, I got kick started into a deep cleaning mode and went berserk over all of my house, including those peeling shutters.

  I moved all the furniture, cleaned behind it, and then did a couple switcharoos with a few doodads and some stuff on the wall in my bedroom.  That got me thinking how much I always hated the curtains in the bathroom, so I whipped up a new set with scraps and lace.  I then ended up buying a new spread, and a couple of rugs for my bedroom and sewed some pillows to match.  While I was rug shopping, I finally picked up some paint to redo the breezeway and these shutters.

Its been a crazy couple of days, but worth it.   I think that since our remodel plans have been up in the air for so many months, I've been just letting stuff slide, thinking I'd take care of it all at the same time, after the remodelling. But then, I realized how hard it is to live with the mess of ripping out walls, and thought, I should have some areas that were all done and nice to make myself feel better while living through the horror of having half a kitchen.

 Sugarwing's Daddy dropped by while I was scraping the ground level shutters and offered to do the higher ones for me.  I have a terrible fear of heights and was going to just continue with my policy of never looking up when I pulled into the driveway. 

This kind of peeling is fine.  This is an old shutter that I have hanging on the wall of the house for decoration by the back door of the studio.  When I bought it to paint roses on, the peeling paint was one of the things that drew me to it.

But this is a whole different story.  This just looks like no one loves the house. 

Years ago, I made these shutters myself.  We'd taken down an old garage and saved the wood. I cut two pieces the length of the window, marked a triangle shaped notch in each, cut it out with a jig saw, then lined the notches up to form a diamond and screwed small boards across them.  It was simple, and free to do, since I already had all of the wood.

I know they aren't perfectly straight, but for me, the old wood and simplicity of them compliments our old house and helps make the new addition fit in with the older half of the house.

More redo pictures to come! 

And in case you were wondering, I think all of the mice are caught.  Twinkle helped, she is a good hunter.

Painting furniture with no sanding, some short cut tips

I've done a few other furniture painting tutorials (you can find them on my side bar, along with a lot of other how-tos), but those were mostly whites, creams, grays.  Not everyone lives with "low color" like I do, a lot of people like some flash. I know my family does, they all think my neutrals are boring. So when I paint something for them, its usually bright and cheerful.

So, I thought I'd give you some tips for using deeper colors.

Our Hippy Chick was given this two piece set by her dad, it used to be his mom's.  It looks okay as is, but dull for a  fairy's bedroom, and this was meant to go in Sugarwing's room at her mommy's house.

Its been painted a number of times, looks to me, like the latest was a 1960s antiquing technique.

When I don't know who painted a piece or what they used on it, I always coat it with a BONDING primer, so my own paint will have good adhesion. If I painted it myself and know that it was latex with no poly top coat, I skip the primer and just paint it as is. But since so many things I paint are garage sale or flea market pieces, I have no idea who used what on it and I use primer in case.

Over the years, I've tried many of the brands of primers.  Currently this is my favorite water clean up one. 

There are gobs of primers out there, be sure that you are using a Bonding primer, that says it will stick to glossy surfaces, do NOT use dry wall primer, that is a completely different thing. Kilz will not work unless you also sand.

I NEVER ever sand or strip the piece before I paint it.  Life is too short!

Now, if you are painting something really tough, like laminate or a high gloss laquer, maybe a quick sanding wouldn't hurt, just to give it some tooth.  But for most furniture, a bonding primer will be just fine with no sanding at all, as long as the piece is clean.

For darker or deeper colors, use a gray undercoat to prime with.  The white one is too glaring and will take more coats to cover it.

Speaking of coats, use good paint.  Wall-mart paint is cheaper, but you use more because you are going to use more coats. More time, more work, more paint.

A quality paint saves you quite a bit. This Behr is my fave, it comes in many colors and usually only takes one coat. 

For this, I let Sugarwings pick out the color herself.  Its a Disney shade that is carried by Home Depot.

I chose Satin finish, that should hold up to little fingers and heavy use with no top coat.  This is a good paint that will last.

After cleaning the furniture, decide if you want to change the hardware, if so, you might need to fill in the holes with putty, let dry, sand and then repeat.  After the piece is painted, you drill new holes to match the new hardware.

If keeping the knobs, do you want contrast or do you want to paint over them?  If this was going to be a cream colored piece, I'd have liked the contrast of the aged brass. But for a kid's room, I wanted the pulls to blend in.  So I left them in place and just primed and painted right over them. (when I was all done, I dry brushed another shade over them so they would have a little more interest)

Pull out any drawers, and set them up on their backs to paint. It will save dripping.

Don't ever paint the sides, or the bottom of the drawers, or they will stick like crazy!  I like to wax the sides of each drawer, for an easy opening and closing.

Also, I paint the interior of each drawer, just to make them feel clean and fresh.

If you are doing decorative work after the paint dries, acrylic craft paint works fine.   I made simple stripes in multiple sizes with different sized brushes, and polka dots with a round sponge.  Then painted some flowers on the bottom drawer, added vines to the doors, and accented the trim with various shades.

I am not a perfectionist.  I like old furniture to look like old furniture. If its been painted a few times in its life, I like that to show. I don't sand it down before painting, or between coats. If you like the perfectly smooth look, you'll need to sand.

When painting around glass doors, make sure you scrape the glass off with a razor blade within a couple days of doing the job, or the primer will be hard to get off.

If you are painting a two piece set like this, let the paint "cure" for a few days before stacking them.

Any questions? Feel free to contact me.

Tools you'll need:

• bonding primer
• quality paint
• opener
• drop cloth - unless like me, you don't worry about your workspace floor! You can see mine has seen some painting over the years
• a wet rag is nice to keep handy
• paint brush
• small sponge roller (for big, flat areas, this sure speeds things up)

 

The Snow White Mirror

Sugarwings loved the Magic Mirror I made for her birthday!  (directions on how to make one yourself here)

Fantasy Photo Editing tips and short cuts with Picnik part two

On this photo, I wanted softer colors and an over all, dreamier, softer look.  (at 53 years old, I can use all the soft effects available for my skin!!)

 So, I skipped all the fixes on Edit and went straight to Create.  I turned the whole picture Black and White, under Effects at about 20%. Before applying it, I erased the black and white from the eyes and jewelry.

Next, I used Eye Bright on all of the jewelry and the eyes.

Then, under Eye Color, I used the full strength gray to take away the yellow in the flowers, applied it, and tinted them to match the other colors with a purple Eye Color, faded.

 
Under touch up, I used Blush, in a skin tone on the skin, and faded it away, then did the same with a pink Blush on the cheeks and lips.  I added a bit of faded blue to the iris with Eye Color.

One of my favorite tools for faces is under Seasonal, Valentines Day. Its "Heart's Desire" and gives the whole photo a pink tint, with blurred edges. I applied it with its largest size at 53%.

Finally, I used Matte (Effects) in two layers, a pale pink full size, but faded a bit, then a darker pink very small and faded over that. To finish, I added a grey drop shadow.

Sugarwings 5th birthday

Thanks for your interest in photo editing. I know I said my next post would be more tips and tricks, but I wanted to show you pictures from Sugarwing's birthday party first.  The soft color editing tips will be on Friday instead.

We had quite a week with our fairy child.  We took the entire bunch of 7 grands and their parents to a water park in Kansas City on Thursday to celebrate a few of the birthdays, then my husband and I snuck our little one away for a weekend at a Holiday Inn water park (we had a free Priority Club room to use) and a day at the zoo in KC too. 

She's pretty proud of her two wrist bands from the parks and refuses to take them off.

She also had a sleepover with me on Sunday night, and since I got to have her most of Monday, we decided to throw a party.  A fairy tea party luncheon with Pixie Pie.

We got up early on Monday morning and started baking cupcakes, then made mini pizzas by rolling out the dough and cutting it with a star shaped cookie cutter.  The stars were topped with Trader Joe's marinara sauce, cheese, a broccoli nose, red pepper slice smile, and green pepper eyes. 

I'd show you photos, but when a soon to be 5 year old works the cookie cutter and makes the faces, they aren't always recognizable as smiling stars.  They just kind of looked like pizza blobs. But she loved them anyway.

Next, we set the table with pretty dishes and linens, got the tea pots out, and put on our fairy dress up gear.

It wasn't quite time for Pixie Pie to arrive, but Sugarwings was pretty excited and wanted to sit at the table and wait there for her.

Waiting can be the hardest part.

We were trying something new that day, some all natural rock candy sugar. It made the tea even more fun to stir.

 

When her cousin arrived, the girls scampered up the stairs to get her all decked out in her fairy wear too.

I think that Sugarwings is wearing my all time favorite selections in this picture.  She layered herself in multiple skirts and a lady bug costume, along with great ruby slippers from Aunt Sissy.  Of course, the water park wrist bands just make the outfit.

Did you notice that Pixie Pie is soon to be a big sister? Her mom is due any minute, and is expecting a boy.  I hope he likes tea parties.

After lunch, I turned them loose with cupcakes, icing tubes, and sprinkles and let them go.  It quickly became Sprinkle Palooza, we were knee deep in tiny, tasty, tidbits that made crunchy sounds when we walked through the kitchen.

When I was a young mother, I never let my poor boys go wild with the sprinkles like this.  I was probably on too tight of a budget to allow such waste and on too tight of a schedule to clean up the mess.  And too tightly wound myself to be able to relax and just enjoy the show of sprinkles and icing flying everywhere.

Its so nice to be a grammy. I can't imagine anything better.  I wish I'd been as happy go lucky with my sons as I am with these girls.  I have to say, all the arthritis and creakiness and backaches and wrinkles are worth it. Getting older is getting better.  I love being a little old lady.

Oh, the boys and I had fun when they were little, of course. I was the master of finding free things to do. If there was a grocery store grand opening, we were first in line to get a balloon and free hot dog and play any carnival games they offered.  We hiked, we swam, we pinched pennies and saved up to have special treats.  But life was harder then, I was a single mom with three jobs for a while, times were tight, time was scarce and money even more so.  I spent more time worrying than playing and didn't realize how fast it would all zoom by.

But with Sugarwings, I'm old enough to know how precious and limited these times are. 

Sugarwings might be a bit spoiled by all she gets to do and the places she gets to go, but she doesn't act like it, she is the most appreciative kid around.  She always has a big smile and an "oh my goodness" or "thank you, Grammy!!!", or a "thats sooooo cuuuute" ready whenever we do something special. And she flings herself at us with unlimited joy and wraps us in her arms.  Her middle name is Joy and it is perfect for her. She overflows with it.

And we still are careful about spending, all of her dress up clothes are from garage sales and goodwill stores.  We buy sprinkles by the truckload, but mostly with 40% off coupons at Michael's.

She might be a bit over indulged by grand parents who are smitten with her, but honestly, I think that I am the one being indulged, not her.  I love every minute of it.

Its hard to believe she is five now.  I've been invited to walk to school with her on her first day tomorrow with all of the rest of the family, and I'm just not sure that I can do it.  I might just sob thinking about how fast she is growing up. 

But I also can't wait to go through each and every stage of it all with her.  Today she was planning her future wedding. She will either marry a blue M&M or Prince Navine.  I sure hope that when that day comes, I get to help design and set up her reception.  And I also hope that we are still best friends then like we are now.  Because it will be here before I know it, I can almost hear those wedding bells.